Why do girls only use me for sex?

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Jay

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I've been having this problem lately. Girls won't stop using me!? I mean...i can sense that they're only interested in the sex and we never get to have a proper conversation, they always make up excuses to ditch dates and then come over the next day to sleep with me. I wanna have a real relationship for once, i've even tried dating shy "modest" (or at least that's what i thought) girls but they turned out the same. It's not like i act like a sex addict and most of my flirts are generally not sexual.


Do you think it's something that i'm doing that makes them think i'm a player...? I've honestly only had one night stand and that was on my 16th birthday. I try to act nice and passionate but it's always the same thing. Am i EVER gonna find the right girl for me?



I'm 19 btw. Sorry for typos English isn't my first language! (:
lol guys i'm serious...Sure it's nice to experience at first but then it becomes tiring...I'm looking for a real relationship.
 
Some people would be happy with that kind of problem.

Join a church, those chicks would have to be hypocrites to want sex before marriage.
 
HELLO! HI! IM RIGHT HERE! PICK ME!
lol You have NO idea how many girls i know that would kill to know a guy like you, who wants those things. And all the man whores who answered this question stupidly, you just suck, so go away.
Don't worry, youll find someone that will want to go a bit more slow with you.
When you go out on a date, take things slow, be sweet, .. hold on wait, see now this is very difficult to answer because most likely if your going to be really sweet and romantic then they're probably going to fall apart in your hands anyways lol

hmmmm well now im stumped.

Don't worry though, you will find someone.
With every s**t relationship that happens, a great one is coming right around the corner. Thats the balance of life, with every bad thing, something good is coming right around the corner.
Dont give up
Good luck hun :)
 
Maybe you should just play the field. what i mean by that. is talk to some girls that you are interested in, and see if they are only into having sex. or something. You will eventually find the right girl but that might take a while. for that to happen. Im sorry that this is happening to you. hopefully you find the right girl.
 
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