this is a very disturbing pattern to me. clingy, whiny, creepy stalkers almost always think that they are the "nice guys" and the guys girls like are "d-bags" and they deserve to date the girls. gimme a break. what's funny is that all of them are 20 year old virgins (i'm in college) and the only action they get is with their hands. they spend all their time playing video games instead of working out, think they're so important and "unique" and lash out at you if you don't pay attention to them and call you nasty names like slutt, ho or stuck up when you reject their advances. sometimes they would say they just wanna be "friends", but they're so boring and repulsive that you don't wanna spend one second of time with them. oh and please get rid of those ugly acnes, buy some new clothes, and maybe hit the beach and get a tan. brushing your teeth and putting on cologne would be nice too. yet these losers think they actually deserve to date girls out of their league and when friendly, nerdier girls try to talk to them, they are incredibly mean. i don't understand this. if you're one of those guys, please stop.