i've found recently that a certain number of people will only speak to me when they are feeling down, and they want to moan about something. not moan about something that i've done but something in there life. what does this mean? are they using me or do they think of me as a person to come to for advice? :S as much as i love these people, im just sick of the negativety they feed me with.. cant they go moan to someone else?! i'm not being selfish, there just has to be a line! 
thankss x
thankss x