I have a boyfriend..well..no more...as it were...because i found out he called a woman for telephone sex. We get along so well as we have the same interests and can converse about anything and we have the same sense of humor and laugh alot. We like reading and exploring historical sites and going on picnics. But..but...he is not highly charged sexually, with me anyway and i have to take any inititive for sex. Then i find a phone call to a ''call'' girl on his mobile. I am a real, redblooded woman ready for love and he calls this kind of thing? i don't get it? I told him to get out of my flat and i never wanted to see him. I told my son..who is 26years old and he said the guy wasn't attracted to you. Loved me...but not attracted physically that way to me. So he got his jollies off in his most comfortable way yet had me as a companion and friend. Well..no more he doesn't. So what do you all think of this kind of behavior? what is your verdict as to why this happened. I don't understant it. thanks.