Why can't we figure out how to...?

anonymous

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My boyfriend and I recently started having sex. He'd only done it once before, and he's my first, so neither one of us is very experienced. We've done it in missionary, and tried other positions, but either he can't get it in, or he comes out easily.
I've tried to get on top, and we tried doggie, but that's when we can't get it in.
It's not that he's not large enough, because he is, but not too much that it's too big.
Is it because I'm overweight? Or is it because we're inexperienced?
And when we are in missionary, if I try to tilt my his up, he comes out. Is he not going in far enough? Because when he goes in too far, it hurts.

Please no lectures, we're both in our 20's and very much in love, and are using condoms, while I am also on the pill. So we are being responsible. If you don't have an honest, non-judgmental answer, then please don't respond.

I'm just looking for some advice. We're both enjoying it, but would like to try other positions that could make it even better (for both of us).
 
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