Why can't I talk to this girl? I don't believe I like her that way...?

Jamie

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I was attracted to her a few weeks ago. There was a time where I thought she was into me. I think I began losing interest; she wasn't what I thought she'd be personality-wise. People on here said that perhaps she wasn't into me after I asked about her. So I brushed it off and decided she wasn't...I then went on to thinking that perhaps she thought she was better than me(was really a bytch) or perhaps was jealous and so was acting kinda rude. But she still always notices me. She still watches me before we enter the class. We still sit next to each other or behind/in front of one another.Today, she sat somewhere in the back of the room in the next row in the beginning of class and got up to sit behind me.

She's actually pretty introverted. I guess I thought it was her simply being rude. I'd talked to her once and she was overjoyed(no lie). I talked to her again and she, again, didn't say much. So today, as she was sitting behind me, I think she was trying to talk to me. I really don't know. It was during class, the professor was talking and I was laughing along with what he was saying and for the first time, she started laughing (when I laughed) and made little comments like "ew...that's so nasty...I tried that once..." and would trail off. She soon stopped adding any comments. She had never talked during class or shown any interest previously. She never talked to anyone in the class. I don't know if she expected me to turn and talk about it...I didn't want to, or I didn't feel comfortable. I don't understand, because I don't believe I like her...I am not outgoing but I'm not usually shy with people anymore...I didn't see her as better than me...Why am I not able to just talk to this girl? Does it sound like I might be interested in her? Interested and confused? Everytime I hear her talk, I'm turned off...Maybe it's her lack of social presence? Usually shy people don't make me nervous...I really don't know. It's weird, I'm interested by turned-off a bit at the same time.
Daniel, you mean lesbian? Nothing's wrong with that.

You must have a lot of issues, right?
 
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