Why can't I take romance/love in real life seriously?

Moo M

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Why can't I take guys seriously? I feel like the real nice guy who is supposed to treat you amazingly, like I'm convinced to be with only my whole life by my mom, doesn't exist. Whenever someone does flirt with me in their own way, it feels fake to me! Everything nice a guy does feels fake. The whole valentines day facade is fake to me too.
When I tried going on a 'date' with a guy, I would not feel like it was a date, it felt awkward and didn't feel real. Slow dancing feels fake as well.
I only take romance seriously in movies or books! Idk why I can't take anything love-related seriously in real life. Even thinking about have any relationship with any guy makes me feel iffy.
My entire life, I've mostly attracted guys who were....creepy and not my type to the max. I get made fun of sometimes because I never had a boyfriend before, but that's not really a big deal to me. But I just don't know why I can't take guys seriously. I feel really bad.
Advice???
 
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