Why are men so intimidated by bold, go-getting, hard working women?

Rouge

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I was super interested in this sweet, shy guy "Javier". We were supposed to see each other yesterday, but due to poor communication we didn't. Anyway I called him today (hoping to leave a message) and he answered. I apologized for the accidental incident, and all he said was "ok". The phone call lasted 55 seconds (according to my phone). He was making me nervous- which is super hard to do! So I'm pretty sure that whatever hope there was of him asking me out, is totally gone.

Why are men so afraid of me? Is it because I have a full time job, work hard, pay my own bills, know what I want, am outgoing and come off as being "dominant"? I mean really, what's the guy's problem? Why are guys so "scared" of me? So what if I'm an unorthodox woman! Is it really just because I am too outgoing? This has happened way more than once to me... So guys, what the heck is your problem? (I'm cute, smart, hard working, driven, and self assured! So what?)
 
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