...who choose abortions? my mother for one, claims to be this christian yet she judges against gays and lesbians like no other, rude slurs and jus all around hateful, (im a lesbian btw) and yes ive tried the praying thing, didnt work, and no i wont try to be with a man either, been there done that, didnt work either, and no my parents didnt raise me accept them, obviously, my mother actually taught me to hate them, which i did, till puberty, many times i wished i was straight or that i had been born a boy, but thats neither her nor there, theres just alot of people judging and being rude to gays and woman who want abortons, i thought god says not to judge and not to hate, why do some not follow this, its like they follow certain parts of it, and i dont understand why people treat homosexuality as a worse sin then any other, sins are the same, a sin is a sin, so i asked my mother about this one time, i said someone who drinks all the time (alcohol obviously) there living in sin, same as a homosexual, why is it that the drunk isnt considered to burn in hell like the gay, i dont get it, also another thing, ive never done anything with a girl, i jus have the thoughts and the feelings for them, does this mean i will go to hell (in the homosexual is bad sense) can someone clear up some of this for me
i forgot to add my mother thinks rich men and woman are goin to hell, i have no idea where she got that, but is that true
also i believe in god, just not the god many christians (such as my mother) think he is, the god i believe in, loves me, and made me the way i am for a reason
if i had one wish, it would be that for one day, a christian woman would feel what i feel towards woman, to know what it feels like to have no control over your feelings, and be ridiculed and called gross and disgusting
ok so a gay couple that stays with each other for the rest of there life together, no cheating, will go to hell, and a straight couple thats been threw divorces, and cheats on one another will go to heaven, what about that makes any sense, im sorry but like i said, i believe in a god, just not this god you all say will send me to hell, after ive prayed most of my childhood (after puberty) to make me straight, has not, the god i believe in wants me this way, made me this way, and loves me this way
ok but lets say this woman got raped, then became pregnant, im sorry bout i dont think i could live with a child like that, nor would i want to have the kid and put him/her threw a foster home
@cadisneygirl, then y do i feel this way, my feelings towards girls, all threw highschool i was attracted to girls as boys are, and i felt nothing for boys, ive tried, it didnt work, i prayed, it didnt work, suicide was defiantly on my mind, because i knew i was different, and the way i was taught, i was an abomination, so am i suppose to jus find a man, marry him, have kids with him, live a life with him unhappy, knowing i wont ever love him, i dont know about you, but people dont marry and live lives with people they dont have feelings for, so you tell me, what is it, im suppose to do
im happy with my body, im happy as a woman, but i only wanted to be a boy, because in order to be with woman you had to be a boy, and i have such strong feelings for girls, but i dont have the body that is suppose to be with girls
@liz im just saying, why should i have to go threw a pregnancy because of some selfish bastard
i forgot to add my mother thinks rich men and woman are goin to hell, i have no idea where she got that, but is that true
also i believe in god, just not the god many christians (such as my mother) think he is, the god i believe in, loves me, and made me the way i am for a reason
if i had one wish, it would be that for one day, a christian woman would feel what i feel towards woman, to know what it feels like to have no control over your feelings, and be ridiculed and called gross and disgusting
ok so a gay couple that stays with each other for the rest of there life together, no cheating, will go to hell, and a straight couple thats been threw divorces, and cheats on one another will go to heaven, what about that makes any sense, im sorry but like i said, i believe in a god, just not this god you all say will send me to hell, after ive prayed most of my childhood (after puberty) to make me straight, has not, the god i believe in wants me this way, made me this way, and loves me this way
ok but lets say this woman got raped, then became pregnant, im sorry bout i dont think i could live with a child like that, nor would i want to have the kid and put him/her threw a foster home
@cadisneygirl, then y do i feel this way, my feelings towards girls, all threw highschool i was attracted to girls as boys are, and i felt nothing for boys, ive tried, it didnt work, i prayed, it didnt work, suicide was defiantly on my mind, because i knew i was different, and the way i was taught, i was an abomination, so am i suppose to jus find a man, marry him, have kids with him, live a life with him unhappy, knowing i wont ever love him, i dont know about you, but people dont marry and live lives with people they dont have feelings for, so you tell me, what is it, im suppose to do
im happy with my body, im happy as a woman, but i only wanted to be a boy, because in order to be with woman you had to be a boy, and i have such strong feelings for girls, but i dont have the body that is suppose to be with girls
@liz im just saying, why should i have to go threw a pregnancy because of some selfish bastard