Why are American women particularly ill mannered?

Sheeba World

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I am an Asian woman and have worked in many countries and lived in various expat communities. There are bad apples everywhere but I have met some really sweet ladies from all over the world but America. English, Scottish, Dutch, Dane, New Zealanders, Australians.. they all have some decency n some etiquettes. But somehow american women are downright offensive - arrogant as hell, they do not know how to say simple words like Thank you,.. God help u if they are teachers in a school - they are racist even with small children, whereas the European ladies are really fair esp. with the kids. I just find American women (thus far 100% that I have met over the last 15 years) totally obnoxious. No wonder their men don't want them either and in private diss on them plenty. Is it just my experience or does everybody feel this way?
I don't think I'm racist - i would acknowledge it and challenge it if i was. It took me a long time to reach this conclusion. Looking back, I can't think of a single American woman I have personaly met who was not obnoxious (even though I like many American celebs, women leaders etc.).
Idk - that 's why I asked. Is it just my experience? Why is it diferent with Westerners from other countries ad consistently so...
Hey I am not coming to US - the American dream is over or getting over. imo.. But it is Americans who are coming down here looking for jobs (often overstaying beyond visa limits - u know like illegal immgrants)
About origins Idk, I only meant white americans (probably European descent but v much native now)..maybe they are arrogant with non americans ...
I WD GLADLY TAKE YUR POINTS ON NASTINESS, INFERIORITY COMPLEX ETC. BUT I DON'T FIND THE SAME TRUE OF OTHER WHITE WOMEN - LIKE FROM EUROPE, AUSTRALIA ETC. maybe it is my experience but there it is..
Annie, I think you have nailed the problem. Aoi Cha.. that is sweet - if most American women were like you, I wdn't have the above view.
 
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