Ok, here goes*sigh*. I'm in my 20's (late 20's), I've always been attractive and always prided myself on my looks. It sounds like I'm tooting my own horn here but I assure you I'm not big headed.Anyway lately I've begun to hate that men want me, it never bothered me before I just used to pass it off and never really took notice. When I was in school all the lads fancied me and I loved the attention it was the same after school, perhaps my desire to be desired goes deeper but I've been digging and I can think of nothing. Now I try to repel men I really do, I mean I'm married now and have 2 kids, I have no interest in men in that way and when I get wolf whistled at or the phone numbers or the recycled chat up lines I just feel empty. If someone came up to me and said I was smart or funny I'd be so flattered, but it's never happened outside a relationship. When I look in the mirror some days I feel like punching it, because if you're seen as the perfect 10 than flaws seem shameful or even worse. I know alot of you will say ah come on this isnt a problem or thats some "dilema" you have there, but I really dont know what else to do. I've tried speaking to my friends but the female one's say I'm lucky and the male one's say something along the lines of "well you do have quality knockers" or something and think its funny...Is there any advise out there for me, anything at all?
Sorry forgot to add that, I dont attend the gym, Im quite curvy, I haven't been to a hairdresser in 2 yrs, I've just long dark hair straight no messing, and I dont even wear nail varnish, make up yes, the odd time...Also I'm not actually interested in the attention of men and that my husband is the be all and end all of my life. I just wondered if someone out there has felt the same emptiness about themselves even though they are classed as attractive. I just dont get it because on paper it shouldn't make sense. I know it sounds stupid, but I cant help how I feel
Sorry forgot to add that, I dont attend the gym, Im quite curvy, I haven't been to a hairdresser in 2 yrs, I've just long dark hair straight no messing, and I dont even wear nail varnish, make up yes, the odd time...Also I'm not actually interested in the attention of men and that my husband is the be all and end all of my life. I just wondered if someone out there has felt the same emptiness about themselves even though they are classed as attractive. I just dont get it because on paper it shouldn't make sense. I know it sounds stupid, but I cant help how I feel