I have quite many contacts on msn, facebook or whatever but I have the feeling that it's useless. If I don't make the effort to go to speak to them then often they don't do it. I'm a bit depressed about that. Often, when I go to talk to someone, I have the feeling that I disturb them. I don't know, maybe they are too busy or maybe it's my impression. Even when you have 100+ "friends" on facebook, the real ones that are with you every day are not so many.....