I was having a bit to do with an older man, know him through work, i am 20 he is 40. He is known for being a womanizer around town, and has been married 3 times. Anyway, I had seen him about 3 or 4 times over a period of 6months (not an affair but he had made an advance) because he is a paramedic and I am hoping to be one. I had not seen his wife for about a year. When I see them both together she makes a comment that I'm like her husbands shadow, i took this as a back off warning, which I did. Then I get a text from his phone at 11pm on New Years eve telling me to get a life and stop hanging off paramedics. I confronted him a couple of months later and he said his wife sent (not sure whether to believe him or not). Just recently I saw him again as I am Studying to become a paramedic. Now he has emailed me a couple of time wishing me luck for the course, even told me I look good in my paramedic uniform.
So my questions are: Do you think she was behind text? What do you think of him contacting me again, even though it was innocent enough, seeing as wife is more than likely annoyed with me?
I wondered if she has been a bit annoyed about the two of us and she has had something to do with the text, not saying he is completely innocent. I sent him a pretty nasty one back (thinking it was just from him). Now i am wondering if he sent it on his own behalf why is he being nice again? I know to have nothing to do with him and I wont but just curious about the situation again seeing as I have just recently seen him again after months.
So my questions are: Do you think she was behind text? What do you think of him contacting me again, even though it was innocent enough, seeing as wife is more than likely annoyed with me?
I wondered if she has been a bit annoyed about the two of us and she has had something to do with the text, not saying he is completely innocent. I sent him a pretty nasty one back (thinking it was just from him). Now i am wondering if he sent it on his own behalf why is he being nice again? I know to have nothing to do with him and I wont but just curious about the situation again seeing as I have just recently seen him again after months.