This is what my life at home was like today :
Step-dad : (both of my real parents have passed on)
I try to go have a conversation with him. He says he’s surprised I’m home, I tell him I’ve been studying all day. We talk for about five minutes before he goes and tells me that if I can’t have a clean room I’m going to drop out of college, when I get out into the ‘real world’ I’ll fail at what I do. That he’s been doing the laundry I put down stairs and I should be cleaning more. I tell him I’ve been studying; my finals are in a week. He tells me that if I cared about studying I wouldn’t have gone out with my boyfriend last night. [ I haven’t seen my boyfriend in a week and a half, I left the house last night at 10:30 PM and was home at 8:00 AM this morning. ]All of this because I have a bit of laundry on my floor. He goes on for about twenty minutes saying this kind of stuff, then tells me he IS NOT bitching me out even though he was on the verge of yelling the entire time.
brother (age 14) :
I ask him who he’s talking to on the phone, because I need to talk to our sister. He tell me it’s not any of my fucking business and finishes his conversation with our sister. He hangs up the phone and I ask when our sister will be home. Apparently that’s none of my fucking business either.
Sister (age : 21 ) :
She pretty much lives at her boyfriends house but is still in charge of my life and gets to tell me what I should and shouldn’t do. She decided it would be a good idea to take my laptop that I bought with my own money, because she needs to look at quads with her boyfriend. All of my biology notes are on that computer. When I called her she said that I would just be playing games on my computer, not studying. My finals are in a week. I need those notes to study off of.
Okay, my boyfriend is renting a house soon and invited me to come live with him if I wanted to. We have been dating for almost eleven months and have never had a single fight, not even a little bicker.
Do you think I should move in with him?
I am 17 years old and he is 19. (because I know you will ask)
Honestly, I'm leaning towards moving in with him, I love him more than the world itself and he feels the same way about me. We always have fun together, and he helps me with school work and is encouraging me to go to college.
Step-dad : (both of my real parents have passed on)
I try to go have a conversation with him. He says he’s surprised I’m home, I tell him I’ve been studying all day. We talk for about five minutes before he goes and tells me that if I can’t have a clean room I’m going to drop out of college, when I get out into the ‘real world’ I’ll fail at what I do. That he’s been doing the laundry I put down stairs and I should be cleaning more. I tell him I’ve been studying; my finals are in a week. He tells me that if I cared about studying I wouldn’t have gone out with my boyfriend last night. [ I haven’t seen my boyfriend in a week and a half, I left the house last night at 10:30 PM and was home at 8:00 AM this morning. ]All of this because I have a bit of laundry on my floor. He goes on for about twenty minutes saying this kind of stuff, then tells me he IS NOT bitching me out even though he was on the verge of yelling the entire time.
brother (age 14) :
I ask him who he’s talking to on the phone, because I need to talk to our sister. He tell me it’s not any of my fucking business and finishes his conversation with our sister. He hangs up the phone and I ask when our sister will be home. Apparently that’s none of my fucking business either.
Sister (age : 21 ) :
She pretty much lives at her boyfriends house but is still in charge of my life and gets to tell me what I should and shouldn’t do. She decided it would be a good idea to take my laptop that I bought with my own money, because she needs to look at quads with her boyfriend. All of my biology notes are on that computer. When I called her she said that I would just be playing games on my computer, not studying. My finals are in a week. I need those notes to study off of.
Okay, my boyfriend is renting a house soon and invited me to come live with him if I wanted to. We have been dating for almost eleven months and have never had a single fight, not even a little bicker.
Do you think I should move in with him?
I am 17 years old and he is 19. (because I know you will ask)
Honestly, I'm leaning towards moving in with him, I love him more than the world itself and he feels the same way about me. We always have fun together, and he helps me with school work and is encouraging me to go to college.