Sierra's Mommy
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Ok My fiancee and I have been together for 3 years.
We have two beautiful daughters one who is only a month old.
What I am wondering is what happens in a relationship that makes
the spark die? I know this man loves me We have been through alot
together, But how come he has such a hard time showing it?
I mean he does little things for me now and again like take me to eat at a resteraunt I like
or cook me dinner or something but nothing like when we first started dating and
When I ask him to re assure me that he's still crazy about
me he shuts down! I' am so frustrated because I'm not doubting he loves me,
I know he does it would just be nice to have him show it for once. Is it so wrong as
a 20 year old woman to want to be pushed up against a wall and kissed with a passion so intense it radiates out every inch of us or to be grabbed and held close like I'm the only thing he cares about in that very moment damn. Or is that just shit you see in the movies? I'm starting to second guess myself if what I see on tv and in movies can really exist???
I'm a bit of a fool for thinking this way but as much as I love him I just want him to show me in some way other than sex that I'm the only woman that he wants in his life that I fullfill his every fantasy and desire! I guess 3 years and 2 kids can really dull the passion but is this what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life? After all I did promise my life to this man. But to be honest I feel like he's just doing the bare minimum to get by in this relationship! Guys please help! Do you think it's me that's the problem? Am I being irrational? Is my head in the clouds or can passoin and love like what I've described really be found?
Where is the ROMANCE???
Thanks so much
Chenise
We have two beautiful daughters one who is only a month old.
What I am wondering is what happens in a relationship that makes
the spark die? I know this man loves me We have been through alot
together, But how come he has such a hard time showing it?
I mean he does little things for me now and again like take me to eat at a resteraunt I like
or cook me dinner or something but nothing like when we first started dating and
When I ask him to re assure me that he's still crazy about
me he shuts down! I' am so frustrated because I'm not doubting he loves me,
I know he does it would just be nice to have him show it for once. Is it so wrong as
a 20 year old woman to want to be pushed up against a wall and kissed with a passion so intense it radiates out every inch of us or to be grabbed and held close like I'm the only thing he cares about in that very moment damn. Or is that just shit you see in the movies? I'm starting to second guess myself if what I see on tv and in movies can really exist???
I'm a bit of a fool for thinking this way but as much as I love him I just want him to show me in some way other than sex that I'm the only woman that he wants in his life that I fullfill his every fantasy and desire! I guess 3 years and 2 kids can really dull the passion but is this what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life? After all I did promise my life to this man. But to be honest I feel like he's just doing the bare minimum to get by in this relationship! Guys please help! Do you think it's me that's the problem? Am I being irrational? Is my head in the clouds or can passoin and love like what I've described really be found?
Where is the ROMANCE???
Thanks so much
Chenise