I'm with my boyfriend of four years , we have a little boy together.Sometimes things seem great,alot of the time hes angry or mad.Hes kind of has a bad attitude towards alot of things even when I first met him .Anyway,
Whenever
hes mad or angry ,he directs it towards me, even if I have'nt done anything wrong/ but more so when I'm trying to make him happy,For some reason,he always has something negative to say about me, about my personality or my habits, my way of life. He says that hes sick of me ,but if I suggest breaking up ,he doesnt want to.Can someone explain this to me please ?? I have tryed making changes / compromising, but he always finds something to complain about.What do I do ?
I left my family in california, and moved to hawaii with him and the baby 2 years ago when the baby was born, but since we've been together , daily life has been an emotional rollercoaster . When we met , he used to complaim about everything in his life and blamed his parents for everything that was wrong in his life.He told so many people terrible things about his parents and how they ruin his life and now I feel like hes beginning to blame me and I feel like he is saying terrible things about me behind my back to people that he knows and that have never even met me and really dont know the truth about me at all.
Whenever
hes mad or angry ,he directs it towards me, even if I have'nt done anything wrong/ but more so when I'm trying to make him happy,For some reason,he always has something negative to say about me, about my personality or my habits, my way of life. He says that hes sick of me ,but if I suggest breaking up ,he doesnt want to.Can someone explain this to me please ?? I have tryed making changes / compromising, but he always finds something to complain about.What do I do ?
I left my family in california, and moved to hawaii with him and the baby 2 years ago when the baby was born, but since we've been together , daily life has been an emotional rollercoaster . When we met , he used to complaim about everything in his life and blamed his parents for everything that was wrong in his life.He told so many people terrible things about his parents and how they ruin his life and now I feel like hes beginning to blame me and I feel like he is saying terrible things about me behind my back to people that he knows and that have never even met me and really dont know the truth about me at all.