...not love her husband.? Her husband is 21yrs older and sterile.He loves her dearly.She is 37 and has always wanted a baby.She had unprotected sex with a neighbour who has been around the scene for a long time.She tells her husband that she loves him and is afraid to lose him.Her husband is very hurt,he feels that he could not bring up another mans child for a second time (In his first marriage there were two children that were not his).A woman's advice would be very welcome here please.