I was just wondering about other parents.. we have 3 girls and a boy. Ages 10 to 3. Mainly we take away privelages and do timeouts in the corner. If we have to speak to them about the same thing 3 times in one day or they lie they get an automatic spanking. That is something that is clear, and it very rarely gets that far. Its never more than 5 swats over the underwear. What's your main form of discipline and does it include spanking?