What's with the anal sex?

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Maria

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Hi, i was planning to move with my boyfriend soon, he says he really loves me and i thought i really loved him. We had a fight 2 months ago and he refused to meet me halfway for us to continue the relationship so i gave in and changed myself for his needs/wants. Well...now he put the subject of anal sex, and sex in public as needs/wants and that he will not spend a relationship with a woman who will not do that for him. Now he's not talking to me because i was upset at his demand. I am strongly against the two and he will not understand that. I know we will break up because of it and i was just wondering if anal is a must for all men, and that maybe i didn't offer him enough love. I know i did everything to accomodate him and all the compliments i get from him are about how hot i am and how turned on he gets when he sees me but never once for anything else that i would do for him. I wanted to stay with him, but i'm not sure. Should i give him what he wants despite the fact that i am highly turned off from those ideas? Am i being the bad guy here by not completely satisfying him?
 
Anal sex is not every woman's cup of tea! He shouldn't be pressuring you to do things you're not comfortable doing. It sounds to me as if the two of you are not a good match sexually. Rather than do things you don't like doing just to keep him, I think you should break up with him and find someone who is happy with just vaginal sex.
 
You're not being "the bad guy" but you're not what he wants either (sexually). Recognize and accept that before you marry the guy! You can't fault him for being honest about what he wants. I'm not saying he's right... but at least he's being honest.
 
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