its really confusing me.
about a month ago me and this guy from my class just randomly started hanging out.he was really nice, not dushey at all.we had ALOT in common, like we were both really good artists, so we bought sketchbooks together &drew.we flirted for about a week and hungout, and he told me was really atracted to me(over text) and i said thats good cuz i like you too!he was like i think we should explore this more.than at the end of the week told me i should come over to his house because his parents were gonna be gone.i was like no...dude i actually liked you.i didnt wanna just hook up with you.i said find a sluttier girl next time.than he apologized& said he hadnt meant to offend me.he told me he sucked at maintaining relationships that arent sex-based.i told him to f**k off pretty much.wasted nine days on that fool.
that happened on a friday.
the next monday when i came back he wasnt in our 2nd period class.i kinda ran into him at lunch, but totally ignored him.it was really akward.in 5&6th he was really,really depressed.he hardly talked to anybody.escpesially NOT me.my friend(who had him 1st)said he had been really depressed and not himself.
it was kind like that for a couple days until i finally just pinned him down in the hallway and told him that we should just forget that the whole thing had ever happened.all he said was ok and walked away.
we started talking again, but just casually.just as classmates.but the thing is he would stare at me.alot.kinda checking me out, but mostly staring.or watching me.its weird.like hed frequently be looking at me throughout class.or id turn around and hed look away.most of the time i just ignore it though. i been like that for the past month,since i told him to eff off.i also noticed that he goes completely out of his way to avoid me in the hall way now.
on halloween weekend he randomly texted me..he asked me what he i was doing for halloween.im pretty sure he was about to ask me to hang out..?
and two weekends ago i was going to a party(a private one)me and my friends had planned at night at a park.about 15/16 of us.we were really careful not to spread word about it cuz we didnt want people to show up and mooch our booze lol.somehow, coincidentially the guy was there.drunk with some chick & a couple of his buds.he came over to where we were at and started talking to us.when my guy friend asked him why he was there, he said they'd just been chillin.we just aked him to leave us alone cuz we didnt want him there.so he left hahahaaa.for some reason,i think he found out where we were having it and was there on purpose?
..and now.its been almost 6 weeks and he still watches me..ALOT.especially today.sometimes in class he just randomly comes and talks to me when im with my friends, or hell talk to my friends when im not ther.which is weird cuz he never did that before.but he never comes up and talks to me when im by my self..and still.the worst part is he looks at me alot.when were in class he always goes out of his way to pass by my desk.also he'll take a reaally long time to pack up his stuff when the bell rings so he's like the last one out of class..and he kinda bumps into me at the door cuz me&my friends always take a really long time to get out of class.
...whyyyyyy?whats happening?any ideas on why he acts this way?it really bothers me.a sh*tload.
about a month ago me and this guy from my class just randomly started hanging out.he was really nice, not dushey at all.we had ALOT in common, like we were both really good artists, so we bought sketchbooks together &drew.we flirted for about a week and hungout, and he told me was really atracted to me(over text) and i said thats good cuz i like you too!he was like i think we should explore this more.than at the end of the week told me i should come over to his house because his parents were gonna be gone.i was like no...dude i actually liked you.i didnt wanna just hook up with you.i said find a sluttier girl next time.than he apologized& said he hadnt meant to offend me.he told me he sucked at maintaining relationships that arent sex-based.i told him to f**k off pretty much.wasted nine days on that fool.
that happened on a friday.
the next monday when i came back he wasnt in our 2nd period class.i kinda ran into him at lunch, but totally ignored him.it was really akward.in 5&6th he was really,really depressed.he hardly talked to anybody.escpesially NOT me.my friend(who had him 1st)said he had been really depressed and not himself.
it was kind like that for a couple days until i finally just pinned him down in the hallway and told him that we should just forget that the whole thing had ever happened.all he said was ok and walked away.
we started talking again, but just casually.just as classmates.but the thing is he would stare at me.alot.kinda checking me out, but mostly staring.or watching me.its weird.like hed frequently be looking at me throughout class.or id turn around and hed look away.most of the time i just ignore it though. i been like that for the past month,since i told him to eff off.i also noticed that he goes completely out of his way to avoid me in the hall way now.
on halloween weekend he randomly texted me..he asked me what he i was doing for halloween.im pretty sure he was about to ask me to hang out..?
and two weekends ago i was going to a party(a private one)me and my friends had planned at night at a park.about 15/16 of us.we were really careful not to spread word about it cuz we didnt want people to show up and mooch our booze lol.somehow, coincidentially the guy was there.drunk with some chick & a couple of his buds.he came over to where we were at and started talking to us.when my guy friend asked him why he was there, he said they'd just been chillin.we just aked him to leave us alone cuz we didnt want him there.so he left hahahaaa.for some reason,i think he found out where we were having it and was there on purpose?
..and now.its been almost 6 weeks and he still watches me..ALOT.especially today.sometimes in class he just randomly comes and talks to me when im with my friends, or hell talk to my friends when im not ther.which is weird cuz he never did that before.but he never comes up and talks to me when im by my self..and still.the worst part is he looks at me alot.when were in class he always goes out of his way to pass by my desk.also he'll take a reaally long time to pack up his stuff when the bell rings so he's like the last one out of class..and he kinda bumps into me at the door cuz me&my friends always take a really long time to get out of class.
...whyyyyyy?whats happening?any ideas on why he acts this way?it really bothers me.a sh*tload.