Seems like way more girls are into aggressive sex than there used to be. Like _I've_ done something wrong if I don't initiate choking or slapping. Is it an effect of the increased violence in porn (vs. 80's/90's porn) or is it the increased number of girls who have been abused/taken advantage of by men? Or neither? I'm not necessarily complaining, but... Sometimes I just wanna stop in the middle, look her in the eyes and ask her, "Who hurt you? Who hurt you?!"