chat sites with web cams change quickly it seems, whats a good messenger site now or one that has lots of web cams for gays plus chat that doesn't cost a fortune
Cam4 is very sexually oriented, but not exclusively. I've participated in some rousing multi-chat sessions with some really nice people there and sex or nudity was not a factor. You do have to look for those.
I think Gay.com has some good chat rooms but I haven't visited in quite awhile.