What's going on with my sexuality?

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Dragon

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Right, I'm 18 now and I've been straight, no doubt about it since I started learning about sex. But recently I've realised that I'm getting attracted to the same sex aswell as the opposite. I've no desire to have intercourse with the same sex but in my head I do register that they may or may not be attractive to me. Some mornings I'll wake up and my head will be telling me over an over again that I'm gay. Other mornings I'll be as straight as an iron bar, But the whole bisexuality thing doesn't seem to come into play, in my head I'm straight or gay. D'you think I'm just going through a phase? Because even when I'm a bit more homo I usually read a nudy mag and I'm hetero again. It's... dodgy as hell. I have had a gay experience before but it never struck my sexuality at all, I remained completely straight and I have been in love with a woman before, but like I said I have no interest in entering a homosexual relationship and it has nothing to do with outside influences or morals or anything, it just doesn't interest me. So, in conclusion, d'you think I'm bi or just going through a phase or what? and if so... how do I make it pass? thanks
I should probably add that I don't really know many girls and I hang around solely with guys... most of whom are quite effeminate. Also... I don't really get any.
 
I think that it could just be that you are bicurious which a lot of people, including myself, are. it could be a phase that you'll grow out of in time or it could be you realizing that you may be a homosexual or even bi, although that does not seem like it right now. just follow your heart and in due time things will all figure themselves out. good luck.
 
in my experience that weird feeling is the condition resulting from the removal of self sensors of material (such as thoughts that you might have same sex attraction) that you always considered yourself exempt from needing to think about it. I had the same feeling and eventually settled into Bisexuality, you might turn out straight though, who knows, just think about it and roll with it, don't split yourself into "straight me" and "gay me" try to see if you can bring them together.
 
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