I've come to the conclusions that the only reason people run around out there having sex is because they have no self control. I also feel the idea of just getting naked with anyone everywhere is getting to be a little to normal, and for me it feels people are just to weak to actually have any control or responsibility for their impulses. I know it's a natural instinct but does that really make it ok? I mean how much self worth can you honestly have if you'd be willing to sleep with someone you don't really know, who might be someone horrible if you took the time to get to know them? For me personally I've come to a point in my life that I just really love me and who I am, and I rarely ever think of sex or notice people physically, and it makes me wonder just how comfortable people, who run around doing it, are in their own skin? In my mind people who are so dependent on sex don't really see what matters in a person, so to me people running around doing it and the fact that its becoming so normal, for children as young as 10 even, is not a good thing.
Edit: Jake simon lol I definitely don't see anything wrong with me not having as strong urges as others I'd say I just have a better sense of self worth
and I do see people as pretty and unpretty I just don't see how it matters, especially when so many pretty people are not so pretty on the inside. Though you brought up an interest question in my mind... I can understand having sex with someone your in a relationship with but why would it need sex to last? If it does, it would seem to me something else is missing in the relationship, like love and I guess for me that's whats missing with people and probably why I don't support doing it with random strangers since it's so unemotional and animal like, makes me wonder where humanity is heading...why use your brain when you can just go with instinct?
btw I don't know if I'm sounding all anti sex cause I'm not. I've been raised by a mom who tells me I should go do it all the time cause it's fun (lol believe it or not she really has my best intentions in mind
) and a grandma who says only those worthy can touch me (lol shes great) but they make sex seem really wonderful and it bothers me how dirty society makes it.
Thank you everyone for your comments so far, honestly I think with this I also have a new idea in mind on what I can do with myself in the future!
Edit: Jake simon lol I definitely don't see anything wrong with me not having as strong urges as others I'd say I just have a better sense of self worth
and I do see people as pretty and unpretty I just don't see how it matters, especially when so many pretty people are not so pretty on the inside. Though you brought up an interest question in my mind... I can understand having sex with someone your in a relationship with but why would it need sex to last? If it does, it would seem to me something else is missing in the relationship, like love and I guess for me that's whats missing with people and probably why I don't support doing it with random strangers since it's so unemotional and animal like, makes me wonder where humanity is heading...why use your brain when you can just go with instinct?btw I don't know if I'm sounding all anti sex cause I'm not. I've been raised by a mom who tells me I should go do it all the time cause it's fun (lol believe it or not she really has my best intentions in mind
) and a grandma who says only those worthy can touch me (lol shes great) but they make sex seem really wonderful and it bothers me how dirty society makes it. Thank you everyone for your comments so far, honestly I think with this I also have a new idea in mind on what I can do with myself in the future!