What's a good way that someone can find out their sexuality with absolute certainty?

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Josh

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im having the same problem you are.. but instead, my attraction for female genitalia is slowly coming back as well :)
im finally bisexual again!!!
whatever happens happens sweetie.. i hope you figure it out, and you eventually will. it just takes time, dont dwell on it, dont overly think about it. that will just lead you more into connfusion, trust me! ive done it.
just go with it and see where you end up.
 
Forget gender and categories. Get to know people of both genders and backgrounds. Some times it just might depend on the actual person and not the specific genitalia. Love doesn't fit into a specific category, nor does attraction. Get to know people and go from there. You might find you are attracted to feminine men or masculine women or whatever.
 
No stupid answers please.

I'm 19, and my life experiences have shown that I am only attracted to guys in a physical and romantic way. However, just as I started to accept this fact, I started to get a small physical attraction for women, leading me into some confusion.

I thought I might be turning straight and started watching straight porn, but I still get disgusted at the sight of naked breasts and female genitals. I think I could kiss a girl, but I don't think it would turn me on or anything.

At the same time, I've been looking at guys lately that are generally considered to be hot, like Adam Lambert, and I'm not attracted to them at all. In fact, the last time I was attracted to a guy was over 2 weeks ago.

Could this still mean I'm gradually turning straight?
 
Forget gender and categories. Get to know people of both genders and backgrounds. Some times it just might depend on the actual person and not the specific genitalia. Love doesn't fit into a specific category, nor does attraction. Get to know people and go from there. You might find you are attracted to feminine men or masculine women or whatever.
 
Well, the porn thing was a good idea. It's a safe and simple way to see what your into and attracted to romantically.

I would say to visit different types of bars and just hang out. Bring a friend or two for some support and see what happens. But you're under age and that doesn't work.

I have gone through what you're talking about and am in complete support and sympathy for your situation.

Some times, you have to go out and see what works for you.

Good luck. . . !!!!!!
 
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