What would you think if your wife confessed this to you..!? ?

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If your wife says, 'Often I regret going ahead marrying you after you cheated on me. You were the one and only person I loved the most and you betrayed my the purity of my love and trust for you. Even though I took you back I am having such a hard time coping with it. Still you take me for granted and treat me like I'm the one who cheated. If you are not satisfied with me then why are you with me. I need more love, respect and appreciation from you. If this marriage matters at all to you, you would change your attitude and actions to make this marriage worth it and turn this house into a home.'

What do you think about this? I'd like to open up and tell my husband just how I feel. Is this going too far? How can I make it better and give a strong, deep yet peaceful message. Would it be better to write a letter or say it in words??

What do you think and how would you feel and react to this if your wife said this to you?
 
I think you hit the spot and saying it out loud looking at him makes the most sense and will show you how he feels too. I know how you feel, I am in the same exact spot in my marriage. He constantly says he loves me, but I don't believe he does because he doesn't show it.
 
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