If someone always told you your marriage would never work out and that your going to hurt the other person. And they talked bad about your children and wouldn't consider them a part of their family (if they were in-laws). And then you find out they are talking behind your back at the work place to your boss about how your marriage is domed. Even when your boss tells them she believes they'll make it. Then they try to tell you how the two of you should operate and that you shouldn't spend so much time together and you shouldn't talk so much. What would you really do, if this had been going on for a year? Would you ignore it or tell the person how it is? Would you do anything differently if that person were an in-law or just a person you happen to know.