thought they were on their way to having a serious drinking problem? They both come from alcoholic families. Would it be out of line to say anything at this point because my fears may not necessarily be a reality. At this point they both hold down jobs and the drinking has not become a problem yet. We all know alcoholism is a progressive disease. If i was brave enough to talk with them about it (i will admit it would be difficult for me) do i have the right to butt in or is it none of my business. they are both 30yrs old.