What would you do if the man you love said he won't have sex with you after?

[Sara]

you get pregnant? I love my bf with all my heart. We've been through so much and our love has been put to the test and we are happy BUT...he said when we get married and I get pregnant he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. He won't do it until after the baby is born and he doesn't want to be in the room when the baby is born either. I've loved him for so many years and now that he told me that I don't know if I can stay and marry a man that refuses to make to love to me while pregnant. He said he'll give me all is attention and will love and hold me. I've never heard of any man refusing to make love to his wife because she is pregnant. If I stay and marry him and have a baby do you think I will end up despising him? I told him we don't have to have kids and he got upset and and said that's out of the question. If he really loves me and I'm the love of his life I don't know how he could think that way. Should I leave him even though we've survived so much? I love him so much.