what would u think if a girl said that she feels so close to u, as if she'd already had

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sex w/ u? taht's how i feel about my long distance bf. i don't wanna do it until we can be together, although idk when that could be. we're both virgins and of the legal age and have been dating on/off for 1 yr. there's sexual tension mounting but idk if i should lose it to the first guy i ever even kissed

would it be bad to experience everything with one person?
we've been on dates,only they're infrequent. every summer and winter the past yr
 
My first boyfriend wasn't my first kiss, but he was my first for everything else and it was quite beautiful. I was his first kiss, and it wasn't weird that all his firsts were with me. However, I think he wanted to only have his 'firsts' with the person to be his wife...so in that regard he may be disappointed. For me, I wanted to experience life and not do the whole 'I married my high school sweetheart' thing.

Do what you feel is right and don't feel pressured. I would recommend your first sexual partner be someone that you are in love with. It makes it that much more special.
 
Well congratulations. You still have it after all these years. It is your right to do as you please.
 
If you have never had sex how could you think as if you feel like it already happened?That's called imagination.How are you dating if you have never really been out on a date or met this person face to face? Its easy to act like the perfect person on a computer but meeting some one having a relationship with them for real is a whole different story than this make believe world you are playing around with.Be careful many people get hurt by doing what you are doing.Its not bad to experience sex with just one person but maybe you should met him first.
 
Well you could wait until marriage, or you could give it up to a perfect stranger. But somehow, losing it to the wrong person kind of ruins the moment for all of time.

Pick your first time wisely, as you will not get a second chance at this.
 
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