What type of effect can arguing, stress, etc. have on your unborn daughter...27 weeks?

A

Aleah Michelle:)

New member
Hi ppl I was dating this guy who I became pregnant by(accident) and our relationship was already rocky but it seemed like we still were in total love with each other. Eventually I became stressed becuz I wanted him to move in with me and help me these last couple months and he didn't seem to want to do that but stay and live with his mom and not care about working. Arguing with him was so stressful and trying to make him see my view point was a constant headach. Then he started hurting me emotionally, verbally, and physically. He choked me, scratched me, threw me on my back and finally I cut off all contact. I'm a lil sad bcuz I miss him but I know I Dnt need that in my life or my daughers. Now I've been ignoring him but can these thing have an affect on her. She has been kicking still and everything but I just haven't been feeling myself. Everytime I argue with him I feel like I have to throw up.
Like will it make her deformed or have 7 toes instead of 10. I'm just nervous cuz he has no repsect for me or his baby. Especaially after he threw me on my back very very hard I've been nervous
 
I'll give you one thing. You got away and you need to stay away! When I tried to distant myself from my ex, it almost cost me my life, but cost the life of our unborn son. No matter how much you love him, IT IS NOT WORTH THE PAIN AND SUFFERING, to put yourself and your babys life in danger. Cause believe me you will regret it.

I was with a guy for about 3 yrs. At first he was this charmer oh so sweet guy, but as soon as we got together, it all went down hill. I mean he changed big time. He was mean to me. we got into fights. He was physically, mentally and verbally abusive. I never said nothing and hid all the brusies from my friends in family. I had to shut everyone out cause of him. When I found out I was pregnant. I figured things would change, but they didnt. And when I finally got the strength to open up about what he had been doing to me, it was too late. He got his last hit on me, he skipped town, and I was left to bury my son.
No guy is worth that.
 
Back
Top