First date - bar for wine, then hotel (made love, did not want to at first but I told her it would be fine because I liked her and I was not lying)
Second Date - Bar - then did not do anything but spent the night together
Third Date - Bar, then drove her home did not spend night
Fourth Date - Chipotle, if that counts...
Fifth Date - Luxury Downtown Chicago Hotel 33 floors up, breakfast in morning room service expensive but I always wanted to go there, made love. I wanted to do something nice because I knew that night would make us closer and one to remember, went to chipotle for lunch downtown because she seems to be addicted to chipotle lol
She is afraid of committments for relationships on the third date, she said we are together but not dating or in a relationship. She said dating is like a relationship where you can only be with one person. She was Drunk at the time, but drunk you normally say how you feel.
It is two days after the fifth date and I am wondering what to text her, I have not spoken to her yet, obviously I like her and want to eventually date her I don't know about relationship but I know I like her. Her comment could be because of how I told her I did not want a relationship now while dating on the second date.
So, possible texts:
1. Thinking of you
or
2. Thinking of you. I miss you
3. Or other
Another thing I am jealous of, she is visiting a guy "friend" in michigan and going to get wasted for the weekend. Valentines day is coming up, I made a collage as part of a gift of our chicago trip and photos from the room and the walk in the morning. Little lost, but I need to text her something soon I am feeling.....
I always make love on first date, I never make love unless I like the girl. Been fine in past!
4 gf's, 2 from having on first date. That's not my question though.
I also took her to a family xmas party 1X.
You all got me thinking. I just made a collage of our chicago trip as part of a valentines package, so I don't want to just call it off. I told her "We need to talk about us sometime, maybe over coffee tonight or tomorrow." Thank you for your perspectives....
Second Date - Bar - then did not do anything but spent the night together
Third Date - Bar, then drove her home did not spend night
Fourth Date - Chipotle, if that counts...
Fifth Date - Luxury Downtown Chicago Hotel 33 floors up, breakfast in morning room service expensive but I always wanted to go there, made love. I wanted to do something nice because I knew that night would make us closer and one to remember, went to chipotle for lunch downtown because she seems to be addicted to chipotle lol
She is afraid of committments for relationships on the third date, she said we are together but not dating or in a relationship. She said dating is like a relationship where you can only be with one person. She was Drunk at the time, but drunk you normally say how you feel.
It is two days after the fifth date and I am wondering what to text her, I have not spoken to her yet, obviously I like her and want to eventually date her I don't know about relationship but I know I like her. Her comment could be because of how I told her I did not want a relationship now while dating on the second date.
So, possible texts:
1. Thinking of you
or
2. Thinking of you. I miss you
3. Or other
Another thing I am jealous of, she is visiting a guy "friend" in michigan and going to get wasted for the weekend. Valentines day is coming up, I made a collage as part of a gift of our chicago trip and photos from the room and the walk in the morning. Little lost, but I need to text her something soon I am feeling.....
I always make love on first date, I never make love unless I like the girl. Been fine in past!
4 gf's, 2 from having on first date. That's not my question though.
I also took her to a family xmas party 1X.
You all got me thinking. I just made a collage of our chicago trip as part of a valentines package, so I don't want to just call it off. I told her "We need to talk about us sometime, maybe over coffee tonight or tomorrow." Thank you for your perspectives....