Ok, this girl at our school, everybody hates her and once when she needed help and nobody helped her, I did. She then start being very clingy, stopping me from my studies, talking, asking to go out in the middle of the school... She has finished her course in the school but still keeps coming for I don't know what reason and they don't tell her not to do that, since, our school is very friendly.
When once she insulted me, I told her that I really don't want to be her friend anymore and she insulted me a bit more and I stopped talking to her.
Now, she has discovered a guy in my class that I'm interested in and we've just started to know each other. The gilr went to him and told him that I have a boyfriend!!!!
It's totally false!!!!! I have no boy friends and live alone. But anyway, they guy today didn't even turn his head to say hi, when we were sitting very close to each other.
But once when I was going out he opened the door for me (which means nothing he does it for all girls) and stared at me with a kind of smile for a few long seconds. So I think he doesn't hate me completely.
I can't talk to him now, since, he refuses to talk I told you doesn't even look at me to return a hi!
I'm not crazy about him but I'm feeling very bad that this girl is trying to ruin my life like this while I helped her find a job at school and a class in another school.
Anyway, if you were me, how'd you deal with this situation?
I've decided not to attach to the guy and give him time and space to decide whom to trust.
When once she insulted me, I told her that I really don't want to be her friend anymore and she insulted me a bit more and I stopped talking to her.
Now, she has discovered a guy in my class that I'm interested in and we've just started to know each other. The gilr went to him and told him that I have a boyfriend!!!!
It's totally false!!!!! I have no boy friends and live alone. But anyway, they guy today didn't even turn his head to say hi, when we were sitting very close to each other.
But once when I was going out he opened the door for me (which means nothing he does it for all girls) and stared at me with a kind of smile for a few long seconds. So I think he doesn't hate me completely.
I can't talk to him now, since, he refuses to talk I told you doesn't even look at me to return a hi!
I'm not crazy about him but I'm feeling very bad that this girl is trying to ruin my life like this while I helped her find a job at school and a class in another school.
Anyway, if you were me, how'd you deal with this situation?
I've decided not to attach to the guy and give him time and space to decide whom to trust.