What to do when you don't have the same sex drive as your partner?

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My fiance has a big sex drive. He would 'do it' at least once a day but, I have health problem (and one of them is chronic fatigue) and I just don't have the energy! I love and desire my fiance but I just don't have the energy to have sex every day! He is now always bringing it up and complaining about the fact that we do not 'do it' as often as he would like. And this just pushes me more away and sure doesn't 'put me in the mood'. I've tried explaining to him that I am crazy about him and that intimacy is not only about sex but, he doesn't get it! It's as if he's insecure because I won't jump in bed every time he wants to...I really don't know what to do anymore and honestly, this is starting to put a stress on our relationship. I even wonder if I'm the right girl for him. I don't want him to be unhappy for the rest of his life and I sure don't want to feel guilty or pressured because I don't have the same sex drive as him for the rest of my life!
What to do !?
 
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