Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 and half years and has only had sex twice. and she says she wants to wait a little while longer before she does again we do a lot of oral but its hard for me to not want sex when i have been use to it in the past relationships. I really love her its just causing a lot of arguments about sex. any ideas on how to handle this or something to do to help her want to have sex like less oral sex?