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Hillary J
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My husbands sisters are 17 and 18 years old. From the calls and conversations that my husband has had with them I can tell that they are fighting with their parents. But just last Friday they both showed up at our front door asking if they could stay the night. Of course we let them say in the extra room for the night but that night turned into 4 nights. I talked to my husband and wanted to make sure that he knew that I wasn’t up for them staying any longer since we have a 6 month old and this still isn’t the right time for night guests. I mean that the baby still wakes up crying to be fed and the two girls wake up from the crying and start complaining.
Those to have never really liked me so now that they want to stay for however long I don’t know how to tell them to leave without sounding like I want them to get out. Because they have been telling me that they have been staying with them all the time if something happens. I have known my husband for 4 years and have been married to him for 2 years. Before we were married we didn’t live together until about 6 months before he parposed so I know that his sisters stayed with him whenever they wanted to. In fact they had some of their clothes there all the time.
We don’t live that far from his family. Just 10 minutes away so the two of them have went to school yesterday and that was fine but when they came back they just went to through the fridge and anything else they wanted as if they lived there.
They don’t respect anyone’s privacy and it is getting annoying. Saturday night they invited friends without even asking. Even though they didn’t do much they trashed the whole place. They were so noisy that I couldn’t put my baby to sleep and I had to walk out and asked them to kindly be quiet or leave. They were all quiet for about an hour but then they were just as noisy. My husband was trying to work as well but couldn’t so he went and told them to leave or go into the extra bedroom and of course them having nothing better to do on their Saturday night they went to the room and stayed there for the rest of the night. As long as they were quiet. But the baby kept waking up and crying and all the teenagers kept on complaining. I had to bite my tongue so that I wouldn’t have to tell them to get the hell out of my house.
What am I supposed to say to them when I know that they aren’t themselves at the moment because of fighting with their parents. I mean I don’t really feel bad but I guess I now know what their parents are up against. How am I supposed to tell them that the house is the baby’s house and not theirs so that either they stop complaining or leave in an nice way.
I am telling you that my husband and I tried everyway to get them out without actually kicking them out.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!!
Those to have never really liked me so now that they want to stay for however long I don’t know how to tell them to leave without sounding like I want them to get out. Because they have been telling me that they have been staying with them all the time if something happens. I have known my husband for 4 years and have been married to him for 2 years. Before we were married we didn’t live together until about 6 months before he parposed so I know that his sisters stayed with him whenever they wanted to. In fact they had some of their clothes there all the time.
We don’t live that far from his family. Just 10 minutes away so the two of them have went to school yesterday and that was fine but when they came back they just went to through the fridge and anything else they wanted as if they lived there.
They don’t respect anyone’s privacy and it is getting annoying. Saturday night they invited friends without even asking. Even though they didn’t do much they trashed the whole place. They were so noisy that I couldn’t put my baby to sleep and I had to walk out and asked them to kindly be quiet or leave. They were all quiet for about an hour but then they were just as noisy. My husband was trying to work as well but couldn’t so he went and told them to leave or go into the extra bedroom and of course them having nothing better to do on their Saturday night they went to the room and stayed there for the rest of the night. As long as they were quiet. But the baby kept waking up and crying and all the teenagers kept on complaining. I had to bite my tongue so that I wouldn’t have to tell them to get the hell out of my house.
What am I supposed to say to them when I know that they aren’t themselves at the moment because of fighting with their parents. I mean I don’t really feel bad but I guess I now know what their parents are up against. How am I supposed to tell them that the house is the baby’s house and not theirs so that either they stop complaining or leave in an nice way.
I am telling you that my husband and I tried everyway to get them out without actually kicking them out.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!!