What should I do when the level of drama in my relationship is overwhelming?

[UF Alumni]

There is just way too much drama in this relationship with my girlfriend(we've been together a year). From her family hating me and her being close to her family(living with her mom temporarily), to her making no time for me, to taking me for granted, to putting her job(and other things, like her family) before me, to never taking me seriously, etc. I'm emotionally exhausted, and i'm usually a fighter, but i'm close to giving up. I love her very much and i'm actually in love with her. I don't know if I should keep working at this or move on. She would give me the shirt off her back and she has a very big heart, and spoils me a lot, but still, it's getting very hard