Wondering21
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So I fell for this girl at work. We dated for two months but knew each other for a year. Told her how I felt over the phone after a confusing situation where I was upset with her over breaking a promise (I know soon but it slipped out). Said she didn't want a serious relationship yet but wants to see where things go. Later told me she feels like she should find herself (moving out of her parents place into her first condo). So now we're trying to be friends, I think.
Problem is she acts weird around me when we talk at work. Her body language suggests she closed off, sad, and ashamed (crossed arms, standing with legs crossed, little to no eye contact). Her micro-expression are as follows (micro frown, eyes drooping). Some have said that she's been quite while I've notice this too, though she doesn't interact with others like she does with me. Want to be friends with her. Yes I was hurt over want happened but I'm good now, happy even. And yes I realize I may have scared her away when I confessed my feelings. Furthermore, I may be leaving this job soon cause I'm interviewing for other jobs and I want things to be good between us.
If this continues should I ask her out for coffee, just as friends, to talk and caught up? Thinks there's something she wants to tell me but isn't (micro expression of tightening her lips). Really haven't talked all that much. Want to let her know everything is okay and I really do want to be her friend but don't want to scare her anymore than I already have.
Also I'm good now. Was hurt there for a while but am happy again.
Problem is she acts weird around me when we talk at work. Her body language suggests she closed off, sad, and ashamed (crossed arms, standing with legs crossed, little to no eye contact). Her micro-expression are as follows (micro frown, eyes drooping). Some have said that she's been quite while I've notice this too, though she doesn't interact with others like she does with me. Want to be friends with her. Yes I was hurt over want happened but I'm good now, happy even. And yes I realize I may have scared her away when I confessed my feelings. Furthermore, I may be leaving this job soon cause I'm interviewing for other jobs and I want things to be good between us.
If this continues should I ask her out for coffee, just as friends, to talk and caught up? Thinks there's something she wants to tell me but isn't (micro expression of tightening her lips). Really haven't talked all that much. Want to let her know everything is okay and I really do want to be her friend but don't want to scare her anymore than I already have.
Also I'm good now. Was hurt there for a while but am happy again.