My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now. I am 23 and he is 31 which has never really made a diffrence to us. When we first started dating the sex was great and all the time. after a several month it really slowed down and became not so great. he blamed it on is age saying " im getting older and i dont need or have the energy for it all the time." I chaulked it up to the long hours he had been putting in at work. our sex life has now dwendled down to like once ever week or two and to make matters worse now im finding all sorts of porn on his phone! I've confronted him about it and he said its a way to relieve stress when im not around, which I guess is ok, but it makes me feel way uncomfortable because when i am around he doesnt attempt anything with me. I know he isnt cheating on me or anything, he isnt that kind of guy. what should I do?