My boyfriend and I have been talking since September. We've been dating since January and recently we've had "break" talks and finally decided to take a break on Sunday. I broke up with him yesterday because I hated not knowing what was going to happen. Today, I talked to him and mentioned starting over with dating..how we were before we became an item.
My boyfriend loves me and we both care about each other immensely. I live 2 hours from him and have made trips to see him and he's made trips to see me. The distance was causing the majority of our problems and the rest of our problems were easier to fix but I definitely think he has a problem committing to me. I am a student in college and don't need commitment right now, however, I love him so much that I'd rather not talking to him at all or be with him, fully. I suggested casual dating because I felt it might help him. He's said recently that he doesn't know what he wants but he said that he always will want me and still wants to be with me. It's confusing me and even though I've felt really good about this "Casual dating", I still have a turning in my stomach. I don't know if I should just relax and go with the flow or if I need to talk MORE..which he would hate, about how I feel. I definitely think I need to relax but it's very difficult for me sometimes not to think about us and if we're working.
Do any of you have advice? Do you guys have an opinion?
My boyfriend loves me and we both care about each other immensely. I live 2 hours from him and have made trips to see him and he's made trips to see me. The distance was causing the majority of our problems and the rest of our problems were easier to fix but I definitely think he has a problem committing to me. I am a student in college and don't need commitment right now, however, I love him so much that I'd rather not talking to him at all or be with him, fully. I suggested casual dating because I felt it might help him. He's said recently that he doesn't know what he wants but he said that he always will want me and still wants to be with me. It's confusing me and even though I've felt really good about this "Casual dating", I still have a turning in my stomach. I don't know if I should just relax and go with the flow or if I need to talk MORE..which he would hate, about how I feel. I definitely think I need to relax but it's very difficult for me sometimes not to think about us and if we're working.
Do any of you have advice? Do you guys have an opinion?