awesomeforensicsgirl
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My best friend turned ex boyfriend really screwed me over. We have been close for several months, almost a year now. He knows almost everything about me. I know more about him than anyone. So when we went out, it got really physical, and then he broke it off. Not because he didn't enjoy the physicality, but because he decided he was more in love with my best girl friend than me, or anyone. She gives him some "magical feeling." We used to get into deep emotional conversations, and now, we just fight, he thinks I'm being immature and petty when I try to convince him that she hates him. (She really does, and she is a total bitch to him, she wants nothing to do with him, because she loves me that much). Now, things have gotten waaaay worse. I've been sick for forever, and he can't go out to places with me, so he met this girl who has replaced me. He says I am even more of a child for complaining about being 'replaced.' All of my friends are on my side, even his friends support me. I still want to have a chance to be friends (I never want anything more) but today he told me "you have sooo many friends, why do you need me?" He says this after promising never to cut off communication with me. Now, the best part! His mother thinks I'm pregnant with her grandchild since I've been sick for so long. I am not pregnant, and this has been confirmed by three hospital tests, both blood and urine. She has told this to both my mother and father. She does not know any back story. She is a psychiatrist, her husband (his father) is a pediatrician. I think they deserve to know the amount that their son has changed over the past several months, along with his depression, that they are blissfully unaware of, despite their medical knowledge. He will be even farther away from me, we will probably never talk again but I really care about him and want him to get help. So, finally my questions. Would it be wrong to alert his parents about his depression and that I am not pregnant (she does not believe my parents when they have told her...it has been two months since we have been together and I have had my period since then)? And why, after all that he has done to me, do I still miss him so much? I have tried to go without talking to him, but even I would take the damn arguments over silence. And what should I tell him to make him stop liking my friend, to realize that I am not petty, and to convince him that he really does need help? Please, any answers are appreciated. Thank you.