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sweetnsalty
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A few days ago I went to sleep next to my fiance and the I woke up to this uncomfortable feeling. He was having sex with me. I didn't know what to do, or how to react, and he finished quickly, so i just went back to sleep. When I woke up the next day I thought it might be a bad dream. I was kind of sore though, so I thought it might not be, and I asked him if he had a condom on him, and he said no, even though he usually does, so I think maybe he used it that night. I thought it might be a dream, and he did not say he used the condom, so I felt bad about just coming out and asking him if he had done it, like I was accusing him.
The next night I think he did it again, but at the time I decided I might be dreaming, and he did not even finish, so it was real quick, and I just went back to sleep.
The next day it was brought up that he had groped me a bit while I was sleeping. I asked him how far he went and if he would ever go any farther. he said he had felt me up a little, but nothing more and said he would do nothing more. I let him know then that I thought doing something to me while I was sleeping was not ok with me, and he agreed that it was even like rape. Then later he brought up that he had thought of a new sex position to try, and it was the one I thought he had been using that night.
I want to believe him, but the dreams seem so real, and I was very sore the morning after the second time.
If I had done something at the time I would know for sure, but I just froze up. I did not know how to confront or if I should confront, and I was still half asleep (I am a very deep sleeper).
It still may have been just some bad dreams. I have not come upon the occasion to sleep with him since. If it did happen he might have thought I would not be against it, and now that he does know he might stop. I don't know why he would lie about it, unless maybe he was embarrassed.
Should I just let it go and decide it was just dreams? Should I talk to him more? How would I bring it up to him?
Thanks for any insights you can offer.
The next night I think he did it again, but at the time I decided I might be dreaming, and he did not even finish, so it was real quick, and I just went back to sleep.
The next day it was brought up that he had groped me a bit while I was sleeping. I asked him how far he went and if he would ever go any farther. he said he had felt me up a little, but nothing more and said he would do nothing more. I let him know then that I thought doing something to me while I was sleeping was not ok with me, and he agreed that it was even like rape. Then later he brought up that he had thought of a new sex position to try, and it was the one I thought he had been using that night.
I want to believe him, but the dreams seem so real, and I was very sore the morning after the second time.
If I had done something at the time I would know for sure, but I just froze up. I did not know how to confront or if I should confront, and I was still half asleep (I am a very deep sleeper).
It still may have been just some bad dreams. I have not come upon the occasion to sleep with him since. If it did happen he might have thought I would not be against it, and now that he does know he might stop. I don't know why he would lie about it, unless maybe he was embarrassed.
Should I just let it go and decide it was just dreams? Should I talk to him more? How would I bring it up to him?
Thanks for any insights you can offer.