I neeed help so someone please read and hear me out!
I met a guy 3 months ago with my friends and his friends, I never liked him at first or anything and neither did he me. After a few weeks though we were all chilling at his and he told me in private he liked me, he was hugging me a lot too. I'm a confident person, I never felt shy with him (and never usually anyone else) so we talked to each other a lot, sometimes heart to heart (in real) about our past relationships. I actually thought at the time he was amazing, and it was too good to be true that we progressed any further.
Anyway a while after we arranged to meet again alone, he was really into kissing and hugging, I told him it wasn't right because we were just friends. That's when we had a serious talk about a relationship, he told me when we met he wasn't into serious relationships, but then that night he confirmed he would be serious with me, so he asked me out and I said yes...To put it simply we had fun (no sex) but the next few days he never made effort to contact me, then he disappeared for a week - texting later saying he thinks we should end it for no particular reason.
I noticed there was another girl on the side in all of his fb pictures...It really broke me. Stupidly I kept crying and thinking about him every day. I contacted him the other day and he told me he was only in it for fun, and that's all he wanted from girls, that we should meet and have fun again. I went fxcking crazy at him, then chilled, and said I wanted to change him because he isn't the guy who I met...But he still has this chick in his name and he still makes no effort, it confuses me so much
I told him we were quite tight when we met, though I feel so much hatred deep down there's something...
Should I do anything?
I met a guy 3 months ago with my friends and his friends, I never liked him at first or anything and neither did he me. After a few weeks though we were all chilling at his and he told me in private he liked me, he was hugging me a lot too. I'm a confident person, I never felt shy with him (and never usually anyone else) so we talked to each other a lot, sometimes heart to heart (in real) about our past relationships. I actually thought at the time he was amazing, and it was too good to be true that we progressed any further.
Anyway a while after we arranged to meet again alone, he was really into kissing and hugging, I told him it wasn't right because we were just friends. That's when we had a serious talk about a relationship, he told me when we met he wasn't into serious relationships, but then that night he confirmed he would be serious with me, so he asked me out and I said yes...To put it simply we had fun (no sex) but the next few days he never made effort to contact me, then he disappeared for a week - texting later saying he thinks we should end it for no particular reason.
I noticed there was another girl on the side in all of his fb pictures...It really broke me. Stupidly I kept crying and thinking about him every day. I contacted him the other day and he told me he was only in it for fun, and that's all he wanted from girls, that we should meet and have fun again. I went fxcking crazy at him, then chilled, and said I wanted to change him because he isn't the guy who I met...But he still has this chick in his name and he still makes no effort, it confuses me so much
I told him we were quite tight when we met, though I feel so much hatred deep down there's something...
Should I do anything?