What should i do between this argument?
Im 15 and they boy is only a few months younger then me.
He thinks he is super smart and everything. He is very stubborn and holds grudges for a long time.
When we had our last fight we stopped talking for a couple of months and then just some how got talking again and it was great. He believes i am very ignorant because i don't care to deal with rude people, i forgive and forget because im not stubborn and dont hold grudges, and because i act "childish" which is just me having fun with my life (im not obnocsious though, spelt wrong)
So he was mad at the time and i told him to text me whenever he wants to talk to me but i won't get my hopes up. so he flipped out calling me an "ignorant chilidsh psychopathic freak" (eh were does that come into play into me? i have no idea) and so i just kept being nice saying stuff like thats your opinion, im not mad and am not gonna be mean. Just general stuff being nice. He told me to stop texting him in a mean way so i replied something along the lines of "if i have a comment im gonna say it, these are your opinions, im not gonna be mean to you, blah blah blah other stuff, do you have anything else to say or are you stopping now?" and he didn't text back. I dont want to wait a couple of months and see if things get better or not.
I wanna know if there is something i can say to make things better or something. or to get us at least talking again without upsetting him. or something to just get us communicating without fighting.
Please and thanks
Im 15 and they boy is only a few months younger then me.
He thinks he is super smart and everything. He is very stubborn and holds grudges for a long time.
When we had our last fight we stopped talking for a couple of months and then just some how got talking again and it was great. He believes i am very ignorant because i don't care to deal with rude people, i forgive and forget because im not stubborn and dont hold grudges, and because i act "childish" which is just me having fun with my life (im not obnocsious though, spelt wrong)
So he was mad at the time and i told him to text me whenever he wants to talk to me but i won't get my hopes up. so he flipped out calling me an "ignorant chilidsh psychopathic freak" (eh were does that come into play into me? i have no idea) and so i just kept being nice saying stuff like thats your opinion, im not mad and am not gonna be mean. Just general stuff being nice. He told me to stop texting him in a mean way so i replied something along the lines of "if i have a comment im gonna say it, these are your opinions, im not gonna be mean to you, blah blah blah other stuff, do you have anything else to say or are you stopping now?" and he didn't text back. I dont want to wait a couple of months and see if things get better or not.
I wanna know if there is something i can say to make things better or something. or to get us at least talking again without upsetting him. or something to just get us communicating without fighting.
Please and thanks