myself? I am 43 y/o man I have been in a serious relationship with a women who is 41 for the past 10 months, she is separated and her divorce is a few months away! I have been divorced for the past seven years and have dated on and off, but nothing serious till I met her, We get along as well as I have seen any couple We talk twice daily on the phone and see each other about 6-10 days a month on average because she lives about 100 miles from me. We have been very happy and very in love.....Now for the dilemma her Ex recently broke up with his girlfriend the one he ran off with after his affair and they( The ex and the girlfriend) have a 6 month old baby together....He is now saying he is sorry for cheating on her and telling their 3 daughters that he wants to come home he is a changed man he claims and will do whatever it takes to put his family back together......She tells me she loves me and does not want to give me up, but she feels obligated to for the sake of the children to see if she can possibly try work things out with her estranged husband.....I love her with all of my heart, I want her to be happy.....What I am asking is Should I back away and let her and her Ex have a shot or should I stay in contact and try to keep her love for me kindled.....I am so broken hearted over the whole situation, please any advice would be helpful....What would you do?
What should I do about this relationship I am in and these new circumstances I find
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