So, here's the deal: When it is my shift to work, I am the only one in the store. There is a drive thru. This man has been coming to my place of employment for months (I've been employed in this place for 2 years.) I really can't recall how long ago he started exposing himself to me, but STUPIDLY I just wrote it off as an accident. He would come through the drive thru in his pajamas and I can understand how the boxer-pant pajama bottoms could lay the wrong way....on occasion. Finally I smarted up and I realized that, duhhh, this is no accident. It has happened multiple times to me and when I questioned my coworker I found out that it has happened to her, as well. He exposes/"flashes" himself to us on purpose and acts like he's oblivious to it. He is very charming and friendly - that is why I didn't think anything of it at first. Creep. Last week he came through the drive thru and his PJ bottoms were normal - his nether-regions were covered - when I asked him if he wanted the usual thing that he orders. I got him his order and went to get his money from him a couple minutes later..and he was exposed. I didn't want to cause a scene so I told him I liked his car and I wanted to know what kind it was so I could look at that kind when I go car shopping next week (lie!!) so that I could get his car make/model because I'm not familiar with cars and I didn't know what kind if was just by looking at it. I called my manager and told her about the situation. This week I called the police and explained this awkward situation to them. They had me fill out a report. Today I was working my usual shift and he showed up, so I got his license number. The police went to his house to inform him to stay off the premises of my place of employment if he can't keep himself decent. The man told the police that's its all a big misunderstanding and he had no idea that he was exposing himself, etc. A bunch of BS. Okay there's more to the story, but I'm tired to writing this short novel haha. Sorry about how long this is! But basically, I just want to know if anyone has had this type of thing happen to them, and what did you do about it? I'm feeling very foolish - he's turning it around on me to make it sound like I'm fabricating this story. Very manipulative. Any advice from policemen that may be on here? I'm just worried he's going to angrily come into my place of employment when noone else is around, because I'm pretty sure he's not that dumb and he knows that I was the one that called the police on him. Ugh.
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Bill and Amber & Larry G...Thank you so much. I do work in a coffee house, but I live in Ohio. I have had to call the police on another man that would not stop stealing my tip money and he was stalking me...he would come in and make obscene comments and stare at me while he was drunk and high. What is it with creepers going to coffee houses?! Ha. Thankfully, I'm good friends with the police officers in my area. Thanks again for your advice!!!
Thanks!
Bill and Amber & Larry G...Thank you so much. I do work in a coffee house, but I live in Ohio. I have had to call the police on another man that would not stop stealing my tip money and he was stalking me...he would come in and make obscene comments and stare at me while he was drunk and high. What is it with creepers going to coffee houses?! Ha. Thankfully, I'm good friends with the police officers in my area. Thanks again for your advice!!!