Elyse Johnson
New member
Guys and girls opinions please.
I am so confused with what people are telling me. Some people say that when it comes to a guy you are interested in, you have to be pushy, and be very outgoing. Others tell me that you have to wait for the guy to come to you first, or else you are chasing him away. What is the best thing to do? If you are interested in someone, should you be more aggressive and try and talk to them and make plans and whatnot, or should you back off and wait for them? Personally, I want to be more pushy, but now I'm scared that I would be scaring him away. I don't want to miss out and waste time like I have in the past though. Advice please
I am so confused with what people are telling me. Some people say that when it comes to a guy you are interested in, you have to be pushy, and be very outgoing. Others tell me that you have to wait for the guy to come to you first, or else you are chasing him away. What is the best thing to do? If you are interested in someone, should you be more aggressive and try and talk to them and make plans and whatnot, or should you back off and wait for them? Personally, I want to be more pushy, but now I'm scared that I would be scaring him away. I don't want to miss out and waste time like I have in the past though. Advice please