the guy doesnt MAKE her ready, she gets ready on her own time, jeez, just ASK her if SHE is ready. dont force her to a decision and dont try to persuade her from what she wants, then the relation doesnt have much love it seems
First thing you need to know is not to push her over her boundaries. Let her come to you when she is ready. It sounds cliche but it is in the best of both of your interests.
Second of all that doesn't mean you don't have to suggest the thought. Talk to her on the phone about it so it isn't as awkward, just ask her views on having sex, etc.
Third of all I hope you take my first to thoughts into mind when you think about having sex, and if you must take precautions.
Why in the Hell do you need to get her ready for sex? It sounds like you are pretty young. You kids need to stop growing up so fast and enjoy being a kid. By the way, if you really like her you would respect her and not try to get her to have sex with you. If you do try, I hope her father comes after you and puts the fear of God in you making you never want to touch another girl again until you are married.
