I am 23, and my friend with benefits is a 17. I met him at a party a year ago, and seeing that he was a really cute, shy, and nice guy, I asked him to become my friend with benefits. He seemed a bit excited and agreed to having sex with no strings attached. But as it turns out, he's had some deep feelings for me all this time..
Last night, he looked at me in the eyes and asked me if I would marry him when he turns 18. He told me that he never felt loved by anyone except for me (he was raised in a really abusive Korean household) and that he loved me so much that he'd be willing to die for me. He said he only kept this friend with benefits relationship going in hopes that I would develop feelings for him.
Well, tough luck for this kid. I told him I'd think about it because I didn't want to completely ruin his life. I thought about the idea of dating him, but I really don't want to be seen dating a 17 year old. It's just too embarrassing. It's enough that I would ride him nearly every other day. What did he not understand about what he was getting into? I've had two previous FWB relationships with a 23 year old and a 26 year old, and those guys understood what they were getting into.
Last night, he looked at me in the eyes and asked me if I would marry him when he turns 18. He told me that he never felt loved by anyone except for me (he was raised in a really abusive Korean household) and that he loved me so much that he'd be willing to die for me. He said he only kept this friend with benefits relationship going in hopes that I would develop feelings for him.
Well, tough luck for this kid. I told him I'd think about it because I didn't want to completely ruin his life. I thought about the idea of dating him, but I really don't want to be seen dating a 17 year old. It's just too embarrassing. It's enough that I would ride him nearly every other day. What did he not understand about what he was getting into? I've had two previous FWB relationships with a 23 year old and a 26 year old, and those guys understood what they were getting into.