what makes you girlfriend material to a man? arent feelings developed through

[Valentina]

intimacy and your actions? hello,i just asked a question and most agreed i was being used,i don't know what to think,ultimately i do want a relationship something special i do have feelings for this man,{he is divorced 2 years} he does not want commitment just sex,i treat him like a king,make him breakfast in bed,the sex is great he seems to enjoy it i am always there for him,but i don't want to walk away although all it is is sex as i have feelings and string attraction for him,is that how things start out sleeping together then the man wants something more?i want to believe he will eventually want more or am i believing in a drea?what can i do to make him see we would be great together?,i would appreciate your input thanks